My parents are divorced and I want to get away from my evil step mom. Pls help me. My mom is also trying her best to keep me because I want to stay with her. You should talk it over with your parents and see if they can or will come to a agreement with you. If they say no wait for a couple weeks and then bring it up again. I want to live with my dad cause he has rules, but he talks to me if I do something wrong. I should be able to make my own choices about this.
Mines the same way just make it clear to your mom its not because u can do what u want from experience. I have the same problem as a 14 year old living with my mom, she grounds me over tiny things like forgetting a chore or sleeping in on weekends. She makes me feel so unwelcome. I talk to my mom about this and my siblings agree when she asks them. My sister tells me that when I turn 13 I have that choice. I get in trouble over things I dont do all of the time too. Hope things go your way!
Hi my name is Brendan I am in the same situation my dad gets super sensitive and my step mom says do this and he yells. You are legally aloud to live with ether one when your 15 or 16 as long as u have a good reason and r considered responsible. My name is Kaleb and I am currently splitting time between my parents. However, every time I am with my mom we argue and it really stresses me out. Also, with my mom, my step-sisters are rude and are constantly fighting and being very annoying.
I am 15 and I want to know how it is possible to stay with my father full-time with visitation rights with my mom. I get along with my father much better than my mother and closer with him as well. Please respond as I have been searching for answers for a while now. My name is monica, My parents have been divorced since I was 6. My parents have gone to court every 2 years since then, and the courts asked me when I was 10 who I want to live with… which I think is not an okay choice.
He has caused me to fall into depression, and it has come to the point of me almost killing myself 3 times. First and foremost, killing yourself is not the answer!!! Hang in there!! The courts put your needs first. The best and first step always should be sitting down with both your parents, telling them how you feel and why you would like to give mom a try. These people need HELP! I know how you feel!! I am in the exact same situation as you are except I am always supposed to watch my half brothers and am often times not allowed to participate in after school activities or sports.
It depends what state you live in. But for most states the age is Btw I am a 13 year old boy. My mom and my dad divorced before I was born, and when I became about 3, my mom met my step dad. At first, he was pretty cool, until in later years, he has been cheating on my mom. Since that happened, they have been fighting for a couple more years until everything was fine. Except, my mom and my step dad would always go outside to drink and smoke, I have a 5 year old little brother, and since they spend most of their time outside, I am usually forced to take care of him sometimes.
It worked. After he left the house, I went upstairs and my sister was texting me.
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My sister is 18 years old and lives with her boyfriend in San Diego. She was tired of seeing me go through the pain she went through. Compared to where I live at, San Diego has many opportunities for me. Even if she said no, I still think I want to move to San Diego with my sister because her husband makes 4 times the money my mom and step dad makes combined.
I just wished my Mom saw this as an opportunity, I want to start a new life, I want to make new friends, I am tired of all the drinking and fighting. Unfortunately, No. My brother moved in with my sister at 14 but only because my mother let him. The best thing to do is to sit down with your parents and tell them how you feel. Work on better communication. My grandmother has joint custody of me and my sister but we live with our dad and our horrible stepmother. They can NOT make you leave without a pickup order signed by the judge. Your dad or Grandma will have to get a modification of custody order from this point to do anything further.
You need to immediately call the cops anytime you are hit!!!! Start keeping a journal and write down all your daily events or anytime abuse occurs. Be as detailed and specific as possible. Record everything you can and take pictures of any bruises or marks. Report the abuse to anyone that will listen and show them your evidence but keep copies of everything. Go to your school counselor is the best place to start!! Good Luck. I will be 18 in 3 weeks. Communicate with both your parents and love yourself.
Everyone goes through trials and pain but how we handle and survive is what sets each of us apart!!! My name is Charlie I am 11 years old almost twelve. I want to live with my mom but my parents always get into a big argument on where I should live. My dad always goes from job to job but my mom has a great job. What should I do? Charlie you can do one of two things your mom can go to court and they talk to you or you can survive at your dads and then move out at She will start thinking about talking to her boyfriend and will immediately give you a response.
After that you can handle it. My parents divorced when I was one years old. My mom married my step dad a while ago and he verbally and physically abuses all four of us kids. My dads on the other hand is much more welcoming. I am 13 years old and my parents got divorced when I was nine. It was not as bad at first until my dad got a girlfriend that lives with us. She is really rude and is mentally harmful. She mentally abuses me and has ruined my relationship with my dad. I know he still loves me but he always cares about her needs rather than mine or my 7 year old little sister.
Hi i live with both my dad on one week and my mom on the other maybe you should be with your dad like 2 weekends of a month or talk to your mom and say that you would rather live at her house but still talk and hangout with your dad but not EVERYDAY. If any can help me I would appreciate it. Please help me.
He hates how sad i am here and wants me to try it out there. And 2 Do the right to skip visitations? Hi my name is Colin. My mom is bossy and mean, but she gives me love. I need help. Who should I choose. Sit down and talk to your parents about your desire to have time with both until you can make up where you would like to be.
My name is Keyara and I am 16 years old. I live in Indiana with my father but I want to live with my mother, who lives in South Carolina. I love my dad, yet my mother and I connect more. Both of my parents have stable jobs and they run their houses almost the same.
My dad is making it difficult for me to move with my mom. My mom smokes and has anxiety, severe depression and drinks a lot. Please help! My mom and dad are divorced. I tried to tell my mom that I want to see him for one week and her for one week. I feel like I should be able to choose where I can go. Is this so? Pls reply…. I have the same problem, but the thing is, I chose my Dad I am living with my Mom and switching currently. We go to court tomorrow. I think each parent should get one full week at a time. Im currently going threw that with my ex see my daughter for 2 5 2 which i think its stuipid.
Hey my name is iiniyah I stay with my mom but i want to move with my dad. Hello My name is Ophelia and I am almost I am turning 18 in two months. My situation is complicated. My parents are divorced and I am still a sophomore in high school. So, what I want to know is simple. My mom and dad fight a lot and my dad says to decide who to stay with. Cant live without both of them. So its a hard decision. I only have today to decide. But as always i watched in Youtube that what will happen if i am without my mom.
So will i make the right decision , and i am saying that i am going to live with my mom. My dad will never take my mom back. So there is no point for both of them to be together. So i need some advice. Should i stay with my mom or dad? I am getting really stressed out. I would say your Mother. She will nurture you and hopefully set you in tbe right direction. You love them both and can they please for your sake , get along and discuss tnings like mature adults.
Im sorry your ferling this way. Ask God for thr peace that passes ALL understanding. Prayers young friend. I suggest you choose wisely. Will be 15 in August. My mom has full custody since she is the only biological parent I know. I would say love your Mother, forgive your Mother. She is hurting terribly herself, perhaos has not even told you ALL she has gone through in her life.
I would ssy if theres proof thst she is unstable the courts just may grant custody to your Stepdad. Above all, Pray. Gid already knows what your going through, he just wants to hear from YOU. Prayers sweet friend. Hi, I am 14 years old. I am almost in high school and have been living with my mom for 4 years. I have a good connection with my dad and he understands me so much more than my mom. But, later, she regretted her decision and did not let me go. I still want to live with my dad. Talk to your Dad and try again talking to mom.
Honestly if you really want to go, mom cant stop you. I feel exactly the same way believe me sometimes I feel like I want to belong to another family. My guess is to talk to your mom gently and discuss with your dad. My father lives overseas and is getting a new job in Paris. My situation with my mom is okay but when ever I came to her with a problem she shoots me down. Would any of these reasons be good enough for a judge? Just suggest it to him and see if that works.
Of course! Listen to your heart. Hi my name is sara i am now 14 and in,july i will be 15 when i was born i had live with my mother and my mother as a full bad mind when i even i meet my cousin boys so she things wrongs. I was born we have grown bigger equally he 2 o. I see him every other weekend, and I end up crying because I miss him. End of discussion. I love spending time with her. I have off of school tomorrow, and I asked my mom if I could stay over again and come home tomorrow afternoon, and she screamed at me.
I am in a situation where divorse is soon going to happen can any one help me out about it I like both my parents my mother is a school teacher and my father used to work as a sailor but now he left the job. Hi I am 14 years old and my parents are getting a divorce. I want to live with my mom. My dad is verbally abusive. He is always yelling at me and my mom. When I was a little er girl he would always sing me to sleep.
I felt so lucky to have such and amazing dad. My mom has time and time again recommend my dad getting counseling or therapy. He was in the military and he had a pretty bad childhood. I think I will just live half the week with my mom and the other half with my dad. Literally he was my best friend, but I have way more things in common with my mom I am a girl. Hi my name is Jacob I am 16 My parents when I was 3 broke up but they never went to court over custody over me I just went to my dads on week ends and during the summer I stayed home a week and went to my dads a week.
Oh I live with my mom And she always screams at me and my little step sister. To the point to where I just walk out and leave for a couple of hours. Just recently I was asked if I would like to go with my step mom and brother to go visit my dad while he is working out of state in Texas. She said talk to my step dad I said ok. I would like to know is this OK for her to do. Hi Im 14 and me and my 17 year old sister have been trying to live with my dad for a few years now.
Each summer we get in a big fight with my mom about where we go to school and what parent we live with. I love my mom and she usually is very supporting. Except for supporting us in our decision to live with my dad. This last summer my mom told us that she would kill herself if we left. Personally I find that very disturbing, and it scares me that she would even think that. I am unsure what to do, or who to ask for help.
I have a reason to want to change my custodial arrangements, what steps should I take? Should I go to court, and ask a judge, or could I work out an arrangement between my mom and my dad without legal interference? I only see her most of the time while she lives in San Angelo I live with my dad and stepmom in San Marcos. I want to live with my mom but not hurt my dads feelings what I do? I was screaming for my mom and she yelled at me and I got in trouble I want to live with my dad and stepmom who is so nice and respects me and my siblings.
My parents houses are a state away from each other, and my brouther two years older than me wants to live with my dad wile I want to live with my mom. The thing is everyone said that the cort would not let us go our separate ways, even though my two older sisters are split up one at each house. What can I do? Hi, I dont exactly want to live with my mom nor dad and i have no idea what to do, and i certainly do not know if i am old enough to make a decision like that, I would like to live with another family member but im not exactly sure how to do so.
I am 14 turning 15 in august of next year, I really need help with this because living with my mom or dad, im unhappy, please give me some advice on what i should or can do. Thank you. Hi im 13 going on 14 in 2 months and i live with my mom and i desprety wanna live with my dad, when they get divorce can i choose who i live with.
Hi live with my dad if my mom would to take my dad to court would i be able to choose to live with her my mom has to custody of me because of past. Hi, im 14 years old and i live with my mom and shes really awful and my mom and dad got a divorce when i was about 6 or 7 and i am going to turn 15 on dec 23rd and i want to go live with my dad but shes says the court wont let me.
Please help. Hi my name is cassidy and iam 13 and Iam currently with my mom but i want to live with my dad. I want to go but I also have a sister and half brother that in only 2 and I already am missing out on my other sisters childhood. What should I do I nee help? The role of a law guardian in NY state anyways has changed just in the last few years.
They no longer go by the best interest of the children and more by what the child tells them they want to do. Now they are not going to tell a judge that but it happens all the time. I feel bad for these kids. Children need both parents, whether they know it or not. Both parents should be required to provide food, housing, clothes and medical. And both should have to work not just have the child live with one and the other write the check. Hi, i am currently in a hard situation with my mom, and my father.
I am 15 years old, and I do not want to live with my mom any longer. I have asked my mom multiple times if I can live with my dad and she tells me no every time. I am reaching out because I really really need help. All of this stress is having a very big toll on my health. Hi, my parents are still legally married but are separated. My father is a registered sex offender living in Arkansas and my mom is an alcoholic. My mother has had custody of me since i was nine years old. I am now currently sixteen, and living with my mom in Mississippi. I am having issues with my mom. Her drinking is making us split father and farther apart.
We currently have a DHS case open but it does not seem like the court system is doing anything. Can I legally choose to live with my father? If so, how do I do it? My dads name is on my birth certificate. Both of my parents have their differences. My dad can be mean sometimes but otherwise he is always nice to me, he lives in the country, and he does have a girlfriend, which she is very nice. I would like to live with my dad because yes he is nice to me all the time, I like the country more than the city, and I never get as much stress at his house than at my dads house, because I live at my moms house permanently and go to my dads house every other weekend.
He is very mean to me, he yells at me for no reason, I feel like he is only here to eat all of our food and play on his X-box like a 10 year old. Is there a possibility that I could go live with my dad? My ex. They live with my ex. During the week and me on weekend. Both our kids want to reverse the rolls. I also would like that. Any advice you can give us.
From state of PA. Hi im isabella. Im 12 years old turning 13 in 5 months. I hate my mom so much. She is a really bad mom. I mean she has her good days but most days she is a living hell to deal with. I really want to live with my dad but i dont want to leave my friends or my boyfriend. My boyfriend especially. I am thinking about staying with her until he breaks up with me I estimate around 3 months. But my mom sometimes beats us. Kyrstin my cousin that lives with us who is 8 years old currently has a bloody lip and a bruised ass an forehead. Cause: my mom spanked her and hit her.
She used to do this to me. She has 6 kids and a husband. She doesnt give me space and is all over me. I hate it. I am depressed but she calls me a drama queen and tells me that i am a baby.
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I have cut myself and was going to kill mysef today but that is one thing i hope not to do. My dad is the complete opposite of my mom. He has no kids except for me and my step brother Kai. He has girlfriends and he gives me space. He is actually getting married in June. I love him so much because he is understanding and doesnt hover. Me and him share the same interests. MUSIC, games,food, etc. He lets me live. Im really scared to tell my mom in fear that she wil beat me up or go crazy.
Im also scared to leave life as i know it behind. What should i do? I want to live with my dad!!! Can you help me? I hold them both equally responsible for the failure in their marriage. Is there any way I can choose to live with my grandmother?
Whether they could deliver on that is uncertain, i for one know how you feel. Any-whom, i sincerely suggest you pick a side, while it may sound awful as if your leaving the other parent in the dark, it could be that you visit the other parent on a weekly basis. Keep in mind what was causing your parents to do these atrocious acts is most likely down to the pressure and stress that marriage naturally brings.
Your grandmothers may love you but i doubt it would ever be as much as your parents have to offer. Best of luck, you deserve a blissful life. To live with your grandmother is a possibility. Maybe you could try talking to an adult at your school or another adult friend who can do something about it. I wish you the best of luck and hope I could help you in any way! Hi im Jerry 15 and i live with my mom but i want to live with my dad. My mom says she will keep all my clothes and belongings she bought me if i move and i was wondering is she aloud to do that?
She should not be able to withhold your possessions, i am unsure if social workers or the court can intervene with that, but i doubt it would be accepted if that means your father would have to spend additional money for you, if that is a problem. Hi im Jerry and Im I want to live with my dad currently with mom but my mom threatens that shell keep all my belongings she bought me.
Is she aloud to do that? Can someone please help me??? Hi im marcus and im 13 and i have the same problems that you do so please lets talk so we can help each other out. Only your parents can decide they love each-other again, i do hope for your sake they are able to seek some minor agreement. Hi, i am here to inform you that things get better when it comes to divorce with your parents. At about the same age i wanted to live with my dad as well but didnt want to hurt my moms feelings. If i were you id stay with your mother until you get alittle bit more mature. Try and push through it until you are alittle bit older to decide what is best for your future.
Hi i am Kyle from Norther California and my father wants me to live with him. In my opinion living at his house is horrible. I want to live with my mom can you help me out with some incite. Thanks from Kyle Pendergrass. Do not feel responsible or guilt ridden, remember it is your parents who need to sort this out between them.
Can I decide for me and my sister who we can stay with. Also, what can I do so we can live with our dad? Hi my name is Mimmi and I am 14 and I also live in Florida. And my dad drinks like a day!! What do I do helpme. I would like to stay with my dad but my mother is forcing me to go with her to Northern California when I do not want to.
What are your suggestions? Like someone explain please. Do I have a say? Can I choose? The time frame can take anywhere from a month to a year, it just depends on what the judge and your parents are wanting. Your mom and your dad have to go by what the court says. You do get to voice your wants during the court proceedings.
You can tell the judge you want to stay with your mom, but you have to have a good reason. If I were you, I would not be able to choose between my mom and dad, I love them both too much. If your dad takes care of you and is a good dad and your mom is a good mom I would tell the courts that you would like to see them both on a week to week schedule, stay with dad for an entire week Monday through Sunday and then stay with mom for an entire week, Monday through Sunday.
I hope everything goes good for you and remember, whatever the court thinks is best for you is what needs to happen. It may be different from where i am, but since you are of an age where the court deem you a logical and mature developed person then your views will hold heavy weight in the proceedings.
You will likely have to stay with your father until then, i know awkward right. My parents have been divorced ever since I was a young girl, and I would live with her during the week and go with my dad on the weekend. I used to love being at both of their houses, and even though they were divorced they were still like friends so everything was good. Then my mom met my current stepfather which I truly love with all my heart, and around that time my dad met my current stepmother which can be like a devil sometimes.
Unlike my mom and stepdad, whom I could talk to anything about, my stepmom is not. Well both sets of parents got married about a couple of years apart, and my mom and stepdad felt there needed to be a change. My stepdad was originally from Florida, but he moved to where we where living to be with me, my brother, and mom. So they decided to move back to his home and build the house. Which is SOOO freaking gorgeous. When they decided to move I had to decide if I wanted to go to.
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Once my mom moved away, everything had just changed, and not for the better. She would physically fight him. Everything was a mess. I knew the final straw was when she swerved and stopped the car twice in the middle of the street and traffic to get out the car and threaten him. So I asked my mom could we try again and she was more than willing. My mom and stepmom had a decent relationship at first but then my stepmom started acted fake and tried to fight my mom when she wanted to take us for ice cream before she went back to Florida.
She threatened to hit me at least twice and gladly go to jail. Sometimes I wish she would just wished she would do it, so I can leave. Is there anything I could do to maybe get through to my dad or any other people that could change my living situation? You can call Child protective services on her. Find the local number on Google. All you have to tell them is that you are being threatened by your stepmother. They will investigate and ask you and your brother a lot of questions so do not sugar coat anything tell them every bad thing she has done but also do not over exaggerate it either.
Hope this helps you. Also every time I get in trouble she violates court orders and keeps me for a long time without me talking, texting, or seeing me. My other 3 siblings also get abused too. I just really need to be able to choose to live with him. I want to live with my dad and stepmom in Edmonton because I live with my mom and stepdad in Saskatchewan and they constantly talk crap about my dad and discourage us from talking to him and they swear and were abusive all my life up until I was 11 or Hi i just turned 13 and i was wondering if i could choose where i live.
My mother lives in a small town with my brother and her parents its a very good environment and she always has time to hang out with me and my brother and have fun with us. So, if i have my reasons good ones will the court allow me to live with my mother??? My mom lives about 2 hours away and is refusing to let me go. I was living with my mom when I was in middle school and she moved to a place that we have no family or friends during the beginning of freshmen year.
Waiting for a court date I refused to go with my mom to a new school and stayed with my dad and my real family, until the actual day of court. I was called on to talk to the judge and he completely over threw what I have asked for and was forced by law to be with my mom. She is never supportive with my desicions and compares me constantly with my younger brother.
And he has been doing Really good him and his soon to be wife just bought a house meanwhile my mom lives in a trailer park. I just really wanna live with my dad please help me. Im 14, my dad and mom are not together anymore. My mom wants to leave state at tax time and move to where her family is. But my dad is gonna fight for it. But hes only on my birth certificate. Am i old enough to decide whether or not i wanna live with him. So i got token by my grandmother. My mom told my dad that he can have custody. And lives in a half way house. And I want to live with my grandmother..
My parents are getting a divorce. They have been split up for about 8 years and I was forced to stay with my mom. When they go to court can I justify that I want my grandma to have custody of me? Me and her has even talked about it and she said she would be more than happy to have guardianship of me. Can she get custody and am I able to choose her to stay with?
Hello, I am 14, and I am split between my parents, its been like this for as long as I can remember, my mom used to be financially unstable and had used illegal drugs, that is when my dad got costody of me, my mom stopped doing drugs and is now very stable financially and my dad is less stable now, there is more educational opportunities with my mom and my mom lives in California, and my dad live in Washington, so if I went to my moms house and stayed there while still visiting my dad but not as often, would it be legal?
Good luck! OK I am 13 and my dad called me this morning asking if I want to live with him. My dad is mean to me most of the time but I still love them both. If you want to live with both parents, you should be able to. You can have joint custody where your parents swap you from house to house so you can be with both. But if you only want to live with your mom, then you should be able to since your dad is mean to you most of the time and that goes against him.
I hope this helps! Is there anywhere I could go and talk to someone about moving out, or having the custody changed? If you go to court and explain what your dad is doing to you and how unhappy you are with him, plus that fact that you are at a pretty mature age so that will also be good then you are pretty likely to find a house with your grandmother.
If your grandmother lives nearby and she is stable with her living situation, then you should be able to live with her. And once your mom gets back on her feet again, you can most likely live with her if you want. Hope this helps! The judge today gave my own child Emma Louise Curtis full custody to my little sister Rebecca oden and mark oden. But as her parents we still got rights we would so like to know how old and when can she come home to chose to live with us she is only 18 months old I so miss her my heart is so broken into pieces.
They say any child below the teen areas have less influence on custody than those around the age of 15 or 16 due to maturity. I highly recommend you try to get her yourself then waiting for her to choose. There must be a reason the court gave your daughter to her aunt, maybe if you fix that problem, then it will be easier to get Emma back.
I am so sorry this is happening to you! I really hope you get your daughter back! I am sorry if I offended you in any way with this comment, I am only trying to help. I hope you get Emma back! Anyway, to get to the point, because your dad has been unable to take care of you, you should be able to live with your mom full time. If you mention this to court, then I am pretty certain you will have full custody with your mom. So good luck! It is true that you have a better chance of living with your dad than the rest of your siblings, but if you can prove that all of you will benefit from living with your dad, then you may be able to stay with him.
If your mother has a hard time taking care of you or if she is abusive, then you can mention that to court and you will most likely get to live with your dad. Hope this helped! Hi im 13 and im from illinois my parents got divorced a while ago and i have wanted to live with my dad but my mom says i have to wait til im 18 is that true? I hope things turn out well for you! Hey, im 16 yrs old, my parents divorced several years ago and i was sent to live with my mom. We have a court date coming up because my dad is trying to recover costody of me and my little brother, i was recently expelled fom public school due to poss.
If your dad shows he can help you with your marijuana problems, then you should be able to live with him. I hope you end up with your dad! I think what you need to do is sort out the problems you and your parents have between each other. That way, you can have joint custody if you want. But if you end up living with only one of your parents, then I still advise you try to sort out what problems you have with each other. If you have to, maybe you can go to counseling with your parent s and that may help.
Yeah, it sounds like the court should let you live with your dad. Your mom cannot provide a healthy environment for you and that there should get you at least joint custody. If your mom is also doing things like abusive type things, then you can mention that to the court and you should get full custody with your dad. My parents are divorced and have been for a while. I have been living with my mom and dad both, going to my dads two days and then my moms. But i really want to stay with my dad because my mom is very abusive along with my step dad.
And they threaten to punch me in the face. My mom made me mad one day when she was screaming in my face for accidentally leaving the front door open when i left for school. I was going to stay there after riding a bus after school to my dads. Please reply if there would be a chance of custody being swapped thank you. Oh yes, you do definitely have a chance to live with your father. You are 17, and that is usually considered an age to the court where you can easily choose your custody compared to other ages. When the court is looking for which parent is best for the child, they usually choose the one with the most stability and capability of taking care of you.
The court also looks for which parent is able to spend more time with the child and since your dad works most of the time, that can be something you can also say to the court. I saw a lot of other people describing their situations, and getting help, so I though I explain mine. My sister loves my dad more than my mom, but I really hate my dad. If my mom were to get a house, is there a chance I could get full custody with her?
If someone is going to reply to answer my question, that would help me A LOT! But anyway, thanks for reading this huge paragraph! So tell ur mom this! Hope u live with ur mom?! Hey there, So, to be honest, personally I would think that if you mom got a house, and had a steady lifestyle and is capable of taking care of you and your sister, if she wanted to go along with you, yes, I do believe the court would allow you to move in with your mom. I hope it helps! My parents were never married and I was wondering if the judge would let me stay with my dad.
I moved from my home country to across the world. I need help, how do I convince my mom that going back is the best for me. Hey kabs, I am kinda in the same situation as you and I currently live with my mom and am wanting to live with my dad but I am having a hard time trying to get that to my mom.
Just talk to her about school and you being lonely. And the one thing my mom always told me was that all she wanted was for me to be happy. I bet both parents love you very much and want the best for you. Just talk to her and let her know. Anyways, this was my advice to you and hopefully it will help! My name is Victoria.. My parents were never married actually but I lived with my mom until I was about 6 years old. My mom was an intense alcoholic and never seemed to be around. When I was about 4 years old.. My dad started dating some girl.
My only memories of this woman were bad.. I cannot recall any good. Well, my dad continued to date this girl.. I remember the day he told me I would be living with him. But that was okay with me because my grandma would stay with me and I have a very good relationship with my grandma. Then, summer of My dad gets married to, my now evil step-mother..
My life up until now, has had some good memories.. But I say ,without a doubt, there have been way more bad memories than there have been good. My dads wife has changed my dad and I in so many ways.. My dad does not give me that attention I once was given. My dad has a huge temper problem. He curses at me.
My dad is hardly home. With his new job as CEO, he has to travel a lot. I spend most of my days arguing and fighting with his wife. I am not the loving fun little girl I once was. I do not like to socialize any more. I shut people out. It seems as if there is nothing I do right. Current today, my mother is responsible. She is no longer a alcoholic as she used to be. She listens to me. She now gives me the attention and parenting I need. She has a husband, whom I am very close with. He has never harmed me nor threatened to harm me. Yes, my dad can financially provide for me better than my mom can.
I am after being happy. I have forgotten how to love. My mom can and has been trying to teach me these things. I need to rebuild myself and I think I can do that at my moms house. I want to live with my mother. Do you think if we went to court, I would receive my wishes and be placed in custody with my mom? Is your mother still an alcoholic? Is she gonna be around for you? If the answers to those questions is yes, then you should stay with your dad and the evil stepmother. This is what you are through right now. Norma teenage stuff. Hold to your panties and wait until you grow up and move on your own.
Hi im 13 years old i was wondering if you think tge judge would concider letting me move with my mom because i live with my dad right now and i dont think i want to live with him because he yells at me alot my step mom i feel like she hates me and loves my two younger siblings and i dont want to have to deal with it any more. They are there for you and nobody else. So pour your heart out telling them whatever you feel you need to talk about. So basically, yes, the judge, mediator, counselor, attorney, whoever they will listen to you and help you with moving in with your mom.
Anyways, I hope this information helps you! I lived with my mom and older sister who moved out from until March My dad lives in New York, which is where we lived until August My parents got seperated when I was 3 and I believe became officially divorced 3 years later in I want to move in with my dad. Is it even possible for me to move in with my dad? Am I old enough to decide for myself where I want to live or whom with? My parents got divorced when I was My parents have shared custody of me and my brother.
However, I want to live with my mom. When u are with ur mom u need explain u want to live with her so she will maybe hopefully take u to the judge then she will fill a application saying how ur life would be better just with her and the judge has to approve and show it to ur dad and he has to understand that u want to live with ur mom and if ur dad reads and understands how ur life would be better then u may life full custody with ur mom.
We have our problems like any other family but shes so much better then my dad. With my dad I always feel down. My step mom also tells me that my dream as a writer is a bad choice and that I should be a lawyer or a doctor. They bring me down and I just dragged myself out of depression. My dad himself hardly pays attention to me because he has my brother. My dad is polar opposite of me, he hunts and shoots, and rides four wheelers while basting country music while I sit, write, and listen to alternitive rock music.
He wants his lifestyle for me and tries to push it upon me but I hate it. The divorce is settleed and has been but I want to live with my mom and see my dad fewer. During the summer I am stuck with my step mom and step sister during the week so I want it fast and sorta worked out before spending hours doing nothing but stare at a wall when my step mom gets mad at me.
What your dad and step mom are doing to you is emotional abuse. Just like a tree, every year you live means there are more and more people whose lives you've touched. I'm always proud to see your strong influence on the world around you. Thank you for being a wonderful father and a good man. Whenever I would fail, you were there to pick me up and put me back on the right path.
Without you, I wouldn't be where I am today. Happy Birthday Dad, with all my love. I miss the days when your strong shoulders seemed like the highest place on earth. But, Dad, no matter how much time passes or how old I become, you will always be my Superman!
Your belief in me and your love help me to feel stronger and braver every day. Thank you for the blessings you have given me throughout my life. Today, on your birthday, I hope you get the chance to be surrounded by those who love you. Happy Birthday Dad. Dad, your light guides this family and holds us together. As you get older I want you to know that I am there for you too, through thick and thin. On your special day, relax and forget your worries. The relationship between a father and his daughter is a precious and special one, and a birthday is a great time to thank your dad for all he does for you and let him know just how much you love and care about him.
To the best taxi driver, the most effective spider hunter, the cheapest handyman, and the most generous bank I know. Dad, thank you for teaching me how to be a man, even though I'm your daughter. Dad, we're both getting older, but I will always be your little girl.
Thanks for always treating me like a princess, Pops! Happy Birthday with many more to come! I love you. Dad [noun]. The one who is there for you no matter what and who wants his little girl to grow up happy. The one who conspires with you to hide broken stuff from Mom. The one who gives great advice.
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He protects you, calls you ridiculous nicknames, and makes you laugh. The most amazing person in the world. See also: Superman, Best Friend. It is admirable for a man to take his son fishing, but there is a special place in heaven for the father who takes his daughter shopping. Thanks for being that rare man for me. Thanks for putting up with me through my terrible toddler years, my angst filled teenage years, and all the dumb things I did in my twenties. The best gift I can give you is to live my best life, just how you taught me.
It doesn't matter how many years go by. In my mind, you'll always be that same amazing person who taught me how to ride a bike, helped me with my homework, and scared away the monsters in my room. Happy Birthday to a dad who's young at heart! They say that from the instant he lays eyes on her, a father adores his daughter. Whoever she grows up to be, she is always to him that little girl in pigtails.
Dad, today I want to return the favor. To me, you will always be young, strong, and wise. Happy Birthday, Daddy. Let your dad know just how great you think he is with one of these birthday message ideas. From heartfelt to funny, they try to capture some of the magic of the relationship between a son and his dad. Some people call their fathers superheroes. But superheroes tend to disappear, and you've always been there for me. If you ask me, my dad isn't a superhero, he is a Super Dad! You always told me that I can do the impossible, if only I tried hard enough.
That's why I can live the amazing life I do. You inspire me to be brave enough to achieve my goals. Happy Birthday Dad, and thank you for everything you do! Though I'm still little, I'm learning about all the love you've given me. Thank you for taking my hand and teaching me the things that I need to know. You're my hero and my guide. Another year older? You don't look a day over 30, Pops. I hope we can celebrate many more Birthdays together! You always taught me to appreciate the outdoors, not knowing just how important this would become to me.
Thanks, Dad, for being such an important part of my life. May we celebrate many more birthdays together! Dear Dad, we haven't always seen eye-to-eye, but that's what makes our relationship even more special. Today for your birthday I wish you all the best! Hey Dad, I got a present for you. I stole your To-Do list from Mom. All you need to do is rip it up. Just don't tell Mom, okay?
Dad, Your birthday seems like the perfect time to thank you for all those times you didn't tell Mom Just know you've got a lot of favors you can call in. Thanks, Dad, for putting up with me through the hard times. If it wasn't for you, I wouldn't have made it through. You taught me what it means to be a man, a father, and a good person. I'll always be thankful for your example and advice. I'm looking forward to cooking out with you on your birthday. There's no one else I'd rather share a beer around the grill with than you.
Wish your dad-in-law a fabulous birthday with one of these sweet and simple happy birthday wishes for fathers-in-law. I'm wishing the best birthday to the coolest dad-in-law! Today, take your time to relax and enjoy the rest of the day. Do what you love and have a great day!
If I have known how great a father-in-law you would be, I would have married your son earlier than I did. That would have given me more time with an extraordinary and amazing father-in-law like you. You've cared for me so much that people mistake you for my own father. Now that it's your big day, it's my turn to do the same for you.
Have a wonderful birthday Daddy-in-law! Thanks for being an awesome father-in-law. May God bless you more with good health, joy, love, and good fortune. You're the best father-in-law I could hope for. Our children love having you as their grandpa. Have a wonderful birthday and many more! A lot of things have changed over the years, but you're still the same amazing and compassionate person you've always been.
I'm glad to have a father-in-law like you. I wish you all the best on your special day and may God bless you with more birthdays to come. Today is a good day to express how grateful I am to have a wonderful Father-in-law who's much cooler than I am. You set a great example for me to measure up to. Happy Birthday Father-in-law! Thank you for being a second father to me. It's comforting to know that I can always run to you whenever I'm in need.
Happy Birthday Papa 2. I hope your day is as wonderful and special as you are! Cheers on your birthday! Give your father a good laugh on his birthday with a funny happy birthday card message! These wishes poke fun at the father-child relationship and celebrate the joys and trials of raising children. Dad, you've always been the coolest. Like all those times you said "yes" when mom said "no. Fact: Dads are notoriously difficult to buy gifts for. Instead, just enjoy this card I made for you, and feel the joy of having me as your child.
Dad, I don't think a lighter will do the job this birthday. You need a flamethrower to light all these candles. Happy Birthday, Old Man! You're like scotch, always getting better with age. Wait, no, I didn't get you aged scotch. It was just a metaphor. Well, anyway, Happy Birthday! You know what they say: Real heroes don't wear capes, they make bad puns.
Thank you for being a real hero, Dad. Wear your gray hairs proudly, Dad. They are memories of how terrible I was as a child, and you earned them! Don't worry dad, you're not going bald, you're just becoming more aerodynamic! I remember all the sage advice you've given me throughout the years. Like the fact that we can pick our friends and we can pick our nose.
But we can't pick our dad or his nose. Happy Birthday Dad, never change! If you want, I'll make a distraction so you can sneak off and get some gaming in. Dad, I know you have the heart of a child. But stop trying to steal a bite of the cake before we sing Happy Birthday.